Ive always had a deep appreciation for systems that managed to synthesize diverse, even paradoxical bodies of knowledge & wisdom. When I met Human Design and began to study it seriously, I was absolutely blown away by its breadth and depth. As practical as it is mystical, Human Design weaves in modern science (quantum physics, biochemistry, genetics and neurogastroenterology -- the science of the 'gut-brain') with some of our most ancient systems for understanding the universe and our own nature (the Zohar/Kabbalahs Tree of Life, both Eastern and Western Astrology, the Chinese I Ching and the Hindu Chakra system). It is important to understand that although HD includes both modern and ancient traditions, the translation of each isnt exact. This is a true synthesis, where the whole becomes something different, and larger than the sum of its parts.
What I love even more about Human Design than its depth and complexity is its utter accessibility. You dont have to study it, or even believe in it, in order to benefit from it. You just have to be willing to give it a try, to do a little experiment in your everyday life. The rest is intellectual icing on the conceptual cake.
THE LURE OF A MANIFESTATION-OBSESSED CULTURE
As Im sure youve probably noticed, especially in our Western culture, there is an enormous emphasis on the word or concept, Manifestation. We are actually obsessed with it. Were supposed to manifest our ideal jobs, relationships, bodies, our ideal 'you-name-its.' And, were supposed to do this by getting an idea in our minds and then just going out and making it all happen.
Even in school, were taught to think our way into the future, by deciding on a major or a 'track' before were barely hatched from childhood, and then to pursue our careers of choice, by sticking to them. But we dont just get these kinds of messages in our mainstream culture or educational systems. We get them in the alternative world as well, in the New Age, even in coaching environments. Whether were going to a coach or watching The Secret, in one way or another, were being fed this particular line of thinking: that to get the life we want, we must first think up a dream, so that we can then visualize it, and ultimately manifest it, by adding our energy to that dream in a variety of ways.
Please dont misunderstand me. Im not saying that the laws of attraction or the power of the mind arent great. They are. Nor am I saying that the quality or frequency of our thoughts and attitudes dont have a tremendous impact on our lives, our physical reality, and the way we receive, perceive and interact with our experiences. They most definitely do! What I am saying, however, is that the Make your dreams come true approach to life is often based on an underlying assumption that may be worth questioning, or at least holding lightly. And that is that our minds always know whats best for us...
You see, when we dont make it happen, when we dont make our mental dreams come true, when were not successful quote unquote, at least not according to the standards of our environment, we suffer. We can end up frustrated, angry, unsatisfied, bitter or deeply disappointed in life (depending on who we are). Even worse, we can end up thinking that somethings wrong with us. Were not working hard enough. Were not disciplined enough. Were too lost, too confused, not clear enough in our heads about what it is that we actually want. We must not feel that were worthy enough. We must not have the talent, or the skill, or the faith, or the internal structure that it takes to make our dreams a reality, or live out our true potential.
So many of us end up either starting a million things and not finishing any of them, and our self-esteem plummets as a result, or we stick with things and become successful in the eyes of society, but were not really happy underneath. Some of us reach a certain age and instead of thinking, Maybe the way Im pursuing my goals is off, wonder whether weve failed to make the right choices in life, and blame ourselves (or the world around us) for our not having been able, or willing, to realize our deepest dreams.
And that is a real tragedy.
EVEN MANIFESTORS AREN'T AS "IN CHARGE" AS THEY SEEM
Its interesting, because according to the research done by Human Design into the world population, only 8% of the entire population are actually designed to be what we call Manifestors. What this essentially means that there are relatively few people in this world who are built to manifest in the traditional sense of the word. These people can actually, or at least it can look like they can actually, get an idea and then go out into the world and make that idea happen.
Indeed, Manifestors are here to go out and make an impact, based on something, (whether it be a want, an impulse, or a feeling) that originates from within them. They can initiate things; they can start a ball rolling that other people can then respond to or join.
That said, if you look at Manifestors more deeply, youll see that even they arent manifesting anything that truly originates from their minds. Because no ideas appear in the mind, without first coming from and through the body, as some kind of a response to a complex environment.
The whole concept of the mind knowing anything first, of being some autonomous, rational source of power and authority that functions independently of the body, of emotions, is an illusion a concept thats been equally challenged by spiritual as well as scientific thinkers.
Anyway, there are some people, not many, who can at least seem to have that kind of control and power to just go out there and make things happen. They can have an experience of knowing what they want first, and then going out and doing it.
AND WHAT ABOUT THE REST OF US NON-MANIFESTORS? (92% of the human population!):
But the rest of us, whether we are Generators, Projectors or Reflectors, are really not meant to do that. Were not really built to drum up a dream, pursue it and make it happen in a linear way. Were not meant to just know what we want off the top of our heads. The majority of us are actually designed to respond first and then act although the specific WAY we respond and act can differ a great deal depending on what Type we are, where our Authority is, and how we are uniquely designed.
A while back, I was watching the Daily Show (a comedic news show in the U.S.). John Stuart, the host, was interviewing an author who wrote a book that explored the question, Why are human beings are so bad at predicting what will make them happy? Though unfortunately I cant remember the title, I do remember being deeply struck by the question. If you really think about it, how many of us think we know whats going to make us happy, and then, even if we manage to manifest it, we dont end up happy at all, or at least, not for long?
HOW HUMAN DESIGN IS LIKE PRACTICAL BUDDHISM (at least for some)
Similar to so many of the profound Eastern teachings that have gained popularity in the West over the years, Human Design points to the potent connection between the nature of the Mind, the act of Desire, and the experience of Suffering. While Human Design does not prescribe the same spiritual practice to everyone, the experiment of living as ones unique self, of honoring ones Strategy and Authority, are indeed practices. And while each persons practice will look quite different on the surface, at core, everyone is learning the same essential lesson: to watch the Mind, to dis-identify with its contents, to hold it lightly enough to resist getting caught in a never-ending cycle of wanting what the mind wants, achieving (or not achieving) what the mind wants, and being temporarily happy (or unhappy),... then wanting the next thing that the mind wants, achieving (or not achieving) that next thing, and still being temporarily happy (or unhappy).
So in a very real way, you could say that Human Design is like a New Zen, especially for the Generators of the world (who make up about 70% of the population), in that its here to help so many of us get out of that viscous desire-driven cycle. And it does so in two ways.
One: It discerns between two kinds of success: 1) The kind that comes from getting what you want, or at least what your mind which unfortunately, more often than not represents your conditioning has convinced you that you want. This kind rarely brings about true satisfaction or long-lasting fulfillment. And, 2) The kind of success that comes from getting the life that youre meant to have. And that doesnt necessarily mean that everything is fine and dandy, or that youre happy all the time, or that everything works out just perfectly.
Surely youve had experiences that werent necessarily comfortable or obviously successful, but you knew and felt at some very deep level that those experiences were good for you. That you did the right thing, because you were able to milk the experience for all it was worth, or you learned something of value, or you were really authentic and yourself in the process, so you would never have had it any other way. Perhaps it was a relationship, a job or an experience, or just a period in your life when you moved through some deep and difficult feelings. But again, there was something about those feelings or experiences that felt right, that were right
for you. No blame. No shame. No regrets.
This is what were talking about in Human Design. So the goal is not about perfect success according to the eyes of the culture, the New Age, your coach, parents, siblings, teachers, or your friends. Its the kind that actually leaves you feeling deeply satisfied, fulfilled, at peace, full of trust, happy to be who you are, with your good days and your bad days, your happy moments and your not so happy moments. Its the kind of success that doesnt just look great on the outside. It doesnt feel like slavery on the inside either. If Generators can feel like anything, they can really feel like slaves! Because theyre such hard workers, by nature. Projectors, who have such trouble knowing when enough is enough, can end up feeling like super-slaves! They can be very successful slaves, but slaves none the less.
Two: So the other thing that HD does is put people in touch with that part of them that they CAN trust, to make decisions for themselves, which is called their true Authority. And then it shows them in a very concrete way how they can honor that authority. So it doesnt just say, Let go of the mind, meditate and be still, and then you'll know what decisions to make." Given how long it can take us humans to reach (and maintain!) a state of mental non-attachment and peace, this isn't always a practical goal.
Besides, the mind isnt just going to go away. Its not going to stop its thinking or its planning or its scheming. Which may not be such a bad thing after all. In the end, we actually really need our minds...to witness and measure and discern, to accumulate and ultimately share wisdom. Ultimately our minds are meant to be wonderful outer authorities; they are what allow us to become such gifted teachers for other people.
Our minds are just not supposed to run our own show. So really, all Human Design does is take that decision-making power away from the mind, and restore it to its proper place, to our own Authority wherever that happens to be for each of us. It shows us a very concrete, practical way to work with our unique Authority. This way, as we move towards 'meditative enlightenment' (if that's what floats our boat), we can still manage to navigate through the everyday of our lives with integrity, ease and a good dose of self-love.
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